He’s a veritable promdi (provincial kid) with vivid childhood memories of cavorting in the river and being circumcised under a tree. She’s a bona fide city mouse with memories of traveling the world with her cosmopolitan mother.
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He’s a history enthusiast who knows every battle line in every theater of WW2. She’s a former history teacher (and Dept Head) who can barely tell the difference between Jose Rizal and Napoleon.
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He is an introvert academic who graduated top of his classes and got into the best schools. She is an extrovert non-academic with 100% attendance at all parties.
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He is an affectionate softie who believes in the power of ALWAYS holding hands. She expresses warmth through text.
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He leaves most everything to fate and trusts in life’s unfolding. She has a will so powerful that it submits life itself into compliance.
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He is a dreamer with his head sometimes caught in the clouds. She is a realist with a gaze fixed on the ground for any dog poop or for any treasure.
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He is very big picture. She is details, logistics, the machine that keeps the family alive and fed.
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He is going stir-crazy in quarantine. She is absolutely thriving.
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The secret to this marriage of opposites — as we, their kids and witnesses, conclude over and over — is 5% love and hard work, and 95% sheer miracle.
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Happy 49th, parentals! We pray for endless love and magic!
Victoria P. Carballo says
Oh wow congratulations are in order to this very opposite but somehow loving couple who made it for 49 wonderful years. Lucky! Go for 60 emerald years dear Tong and Daisy. You can do it. Soo happy for you and your family
Linda Santos says
THE CLOSEST TO A PERFECT MARRIAGE!!
HAPPY 49th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY, TONG & DAISY!!